Song In My Heart

Chicken Soup-the weather calls for it, darlings!

2012-01-26T13:24:00.001-06:00

This was our leftover Pioneer Woman's chicken soup. Delicious! The first time I cooked with parsnips. Her method is simple and straightforward. Very flavorful ( I'm sure using some of my homemade broth contributed to the overall richness!). For the second go around, I mixed in some leftover cooked rice. We enjoyed it both ways. Next time, I might throw in a couple potatoes and some extra carrots.

The perfect end to a blustery, cold day!

Meals ~ January 6-8

2012-01-10T08:32:00.002-06:00

Friday
Breakfast:
English Muffin sandwiches: buttered and toasted English muffins sandwiched with fried eggs & bacon
Orange Juice

Lunch:
Choice of peanut butter & jelly or leftover soup

Dinner:
Baked Salmon served over brown basmati rice with steamed mixed vegetables

Saturday
Breakfast:
Rice Pudding (using leftover rice from the previous night)
(there are some great recipes over at the Tasty Kitchen blog!)

Lunch:
Frito Chili Pie
We really loved that recipe-it's very similar to my regular chili recipe-the flavor is great, and it's nice and thick. I added more salt, even though the Fritos added some saltiness. We barely had even a cup leftover!

Dinner:
Assorted Leftovers

Sunday
Breakfast:
Cold cereal, donut holes, fresh pineapple

Lunch:
Baked Potatoes, Loaded Veggie Green Salad

Dinner:
Fish Sticks (our favorite!), Leftover Salad

Meals: January 3-5

2012-01-06T05:09:00.004-06:00

Tuesday
Breakfast:
Cinnamon Rolls (One can from Trader Joe's makes 5 large rolls-1 for each of us!)
Scrambled Eggs
Applesauce
Orange Juice

Lunch:
Bean & Bacon Soup (courtesy of Aldi's)
Pan of Parker House Rolls (pulled out of the freezer and warmed)
Celery Sticks

Dinner:
The Pioneer Woman's delightful Cheeseburger Salad. This one is a winner! We loved it. Ree is right; the pickles make the salad.

Also, the red onions.

Also, the buttery croutons.

Wednesday
Breakfast:
Skillet Granola with Fresh Strawberries and Blackberries

Lunch:
Leftovers of pizza, egg-rolls, and fresh Guacamole
(I love guacamole, but I thought the lime was overkill in that recipe-and I only used 1 lime instead of the required 2. Guacamole is one of those forgiving dishes, though-you can adjust the components as you like to suit your preferences!)

Dinner:
Oven Fried Chicken Tenders with Sauce, Roasted Red Potatoes, Steamed Peas
The chicken was easy. An old family favorite; something I've made since a teenager! Basically, you take your choice of chicken (traditionally, legs and thighs but for this meal I used tenderloins), dip in melted butter and then your choice of crushed saltine crackers or Ritz or a combination. Bake at about 350-400 degrees until chicken is cooked and tender and crust is crispy. The optional sauce, making it extra decadent, is equal parts of chive and onion cream cheese and chicken broth, whisked together and heated till creamy. Here is a similar recipe: Ritz Chicken with Cream Sauce.

Thursday
Breakfast:
Cold Cereal. End of story.

Lunch:
Nutella-on-raisin-bread sandwiches
Apple Slices

Dinner:
Zuppa Toscana Soup

New Year's Eve 2012

2012-01-01T12:00:00.000-06:00

New Year's Eve looks different every year in our household.

Last year: partying with the Arthur family on an unseasonably warm evening, watching online footage of the tornadoes which had torn through Rolla, and eating ourselves into a dairy coma from all the scrumptious appetizers and desserts covering every square inch of Maegan's counter.

This year: falling asleep on the couch at 9:00pm. Tom had been working hard all day on the upstairs renovations. I helped him install two new windows. Another balmy, unbelievably beautiful day. Feeling happily tired from the last 7 plus days of traveling, company, and frivolity I basically ho-hummed around the house doing laundry and piddly things.

The boys have coughs, so we opted to stay home this year and take it easy.

At 4:00pm Hosanna and I trekked to Trader Joe's to get our dinner of appetizers. Hummus, fish sticks, pot-stickers, pigs n' blankets, that sort of thing. We prepared the spread, ate the spread, opened family gifts, and then Tom and I started drooling on the couch with glazed eyes. The kids, however, were bouncing (literally) everywhere, and begged me to read to them. Which I did. Then they begged to watch a movie together. Again, I obliged, now fused to the couch cushions, and we watched “Gnomeo & Juliet” on my laptop. It's a really cute movie. After that, a little sparkling juice and then off to bed for everyone!

Our neighbor warned us that she'd be banging pots at midnight. We were blissfully unaware.

Banana Muffins, the Vegan Way

2011-12-13T21:44:00.002-06:00

Observing the pile of bananas on my counter looking dangerously brown, I realized it was time to make them into something scrumptious. Usually the kids scarf up all the bananas before they are remotely decent and squishy enough for banana bread, but due to some recent fabulous bananas prices in my shopping district, leading to an influx on our counter, even the Banana Scarfers couldn't keep up.

Liking to shake it up a little now and then, I pulled out a cookbook I haven't had the pleasure of baking from yet:
"The Complete Idiot's Guide to Vegan Baking."

No dairy, which is a plus since Caleb is usually sensitive to it, and no eggs, which is handy when one is out of eggs or wants a break from them.

I made two fairly small substitutions. First, the recipe called for banana extract, of which I had none, so I used maple extract instead. Also, instead of the roasted sunflower seeds, which didn't appeal to me in this recipe, I substituted thinly sliced almonds.

The finished muffins were truly delicious. Light, fluffy, and full of flavor. I intended them for breakfast tomorrow morning, but we couldn't resist them hot and buttered! (Oops-I guess that made them non-vegan!)

Here is the original recipe:

Banana Muffins

4 1/2 cups whole wheat pastry flour
2 TB aluminum free baking powder
1 TB cornstarch
1 tsp baking soda
1 TB ground cinnamon
1/4 tsp ground ginger
2 tsp ground nutmeg
1/4 tsp salt
2 cups soy, rice, or almond milk (I used a combination of all three!)
3/4 cup flaxseed egg substitute (easy-see recipe below)
3/4 cup canola oil
2 tsp pure vanilla extract
2 tsp banana extract (or pure vanilla extract)
1 1/3 cups plus 1/4 cup Florida Crystals or unbleached cane sugar
2-3 extra ripe bananas, peeled and mashed well (1 cup)
1 cup sunflower seeds, hulled and roasted

1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Line 16-20 muffin cups with paper liners. (I got over 2 dozen muffins!)

2. Into a large bowl, sift whole-wheat pastry flour, baking powder, cornstarch, baking soda, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, and salt, or blend with a wire whisk.

3. In a separate bowl, and using an electric mixer fitted with a whisk attachment on high speed (I used a hand mixer), beat milk, flaxseed egg substitute, canola oil, vanilla extract, banana extract, Florida crystals, and bananas for 1 or 2 minutes or until light in texture and color. Add sunflower seeds (or in my case, sliced almonds), and mix well.

4. Using a large rubber spatula, fold dry ingredients into wet ingredients just until moistened. Do not over-mix. Scrape down the sides of the bowl with a rubber spatula.

5. Using a 1/3 cup ice cream scoop, fill muffin cups 3/4 full. Sprinkle a little Florida crystals on each muffin (I left that part out). Bake for 22-26 minutes (mine only took 20 minutes) or until muffin tops spring back when lightly touched.

6. Remove from the oven, and cool for 5 minutes in the pan on a wire rack. Carefully release muffins from the pan, and cool completely. Store in an airtight container, or freeze in zipper-lock bags.

Flaxseed Egg Substitute

1/4 cup flaxseeds
3/4 cup water
1. In a small grinder, grind flaxseeds until mixture resembles a fine powder.
2. In a blender, combine ground flaxseeds and water, and blend on high speed for 1 or 2 minutes or until thick.
3. Chill for at least 1 hour to set up. It can be used now, but it'll have a more egg-like consistency if allowed to chill. Keep refrigerated for up to 3 days.
1/4 cup=1 large egg

Our recent move...

2011-11-11T15:36:00.000-06:00

People ask me how we're getting settled.

Please remove from your mind the mental image of us in a charming little cottage hanging pictures on the wall and gathering 'round the fireplace for autumn cheer.

What you might picture instead is three children of varying heights attacking and tearing apart walls! The basement filled with unpacked boxes! Plywood flooring in the “master” bedroom! A kitchen with disintegrating particle board cabinets! ONE bathroom comprised of a midget toilet, slightly leaning pedestal sink, and funky shower!

But yes, plenty of cheer.

It's good to be moved and all together. The years of Tom traveling for work lasted long enough and we were ready for a change! It's wonderful to be together every evening. We knew when purchasing this house that we would have work to do. Eighty years old, with some updates needed!

I fully expected and planned on us living somewhat sparsely, with packed boxes and just the necessities, while we slowly acclimated ourselves to our new environment, making improvements when possible.

So we're “settled in” in the sense that we're living here, functioning, doing school, and trying to keep some organization while simultaneously tackling various home remodeling jobs. The first main project is redoing the half story upstairs where the children's bedrooms will be. Not just a paint and flooring update, this is a complete overhaul with new insulation, proper vents, drywall, the works! We'll be excited when it is accomplished and the kids can settle in to their nooks. Meanwhile, they are sleeping on air mattresses in the (clean and dry) basement where we also do our school, laundry, and storage of boxes!

Our Last Vacation Days-Friday, Saturday, Sunday

2011-08-30T07:27:00.000-05:00

On Friday, some friends of ours, a family of 5, joined us for the day at Silver Dollar City. The kids had a wonderful time with their friends and we laughed and played all day long! In the evening, we all crashed at the condo for a taco supper and more visiting.
On Saturday, Tom's brother Dave and his bride Becca came for the day! Again, we loved going on rides together at SDC and watching Becca experience her first roller coasters. It was another full & fun day and we all ended up at the condo pool afterwards.
On Sunday, we tidied the condo and packed everything up-our week had flown by so quickly! We went to a church service at James River Assembly on our way out. After that, lunch at Qdoba, frozen custard at Andy's in Springfield, then off to Grandma's house for an afternoon of visiting before heading home in the evening!
We're so thankful Grandma generously gave us the opportunity to use the condo, and we had an absolutely wonderful time the whole week, relaxing and having fun together as a family!

Family Fun!

2011-08-26T21:26:00.000-05:00

At the coffee shop

At the lake!

Day Four: Branson, Missouri

2011-08-26T21:13:00.000-05:00

Thursday:

Tom regaled us with his delicious breakfast of fried potatoes, eggs, English muffins, fresh peaches, and grape juice.

It was the first day of Silver Dollar City's “Southern Gospel Picnic” and the park was refreshingly uncrowded! We didn't have to wait in line for anything, and went on several rides together as a family. At the taffy shop, we observed them making peanut butter taffy, and we saw some of the Canadian Baptists again. After a few hours at the park, we headed back to the condo for a late lunch and preparations to visit Table Rock Lake.

We spent three hours at “Moonshine Beach”, enjoying the lake water and beautiful weather. Tom met some Ukrainian Pentecostal Baptists (as they called themselves) and enjoyed a game of volleyball and swimming with the guys. Drew worked on his underwater swimming techniques, Caleb went to and fro like a fish, and Hosanna bobbed around on an oversized life-jacket, talking to people as she bobbed.

Once we returned, I did a little Wal-Mart grocery shopping and brought back pizza. Then, early to bed! A day of sun and water had us all happy but worn out.

Day Three: Branson, Missouri

2011-08-25T09:30:00.002-05:00

Wednesday:

We slept in even later than yesterday, if you can believe it. Breakfast was bacon, fried eggs, biscuits, fresh pears, and orange juice. One must eat well on vacation, you know, to keep up one's strength.

We headed to Springfield so Tom and the boys could visit ANOTHER Bass Pro shop, the massive one, while Hosanna and I were a few blocks away checking out a darling shop called “Red Velvet”, which I had been wanting to see for months. Hosanna loved trying on the hats, and we found one that compliments her perfectly and looks like something that walked out of “Alice in Wonderland”. We shared a truly AMAZING cookies n' cream cupcake that was everything a cupcake should be-moist but not crumbly, and bursting with rich flavor. We also shared our first-ever bubble tea in a raspberry flavor and agreed it was a favorite.

After joining the boys, we all had a late lunch (everything is fashionably “late” during vacation) at a Chinese restaurant. I think Springfield should also be called the “Cashew Chicken Capitol of the World” and that is what we had for our cheap but tasty middle-of-the-day meal. Also crammed in the tiny restaurant was a Baptist Church group from Manitoba, Canada, loudly exclaiming over and enjoying their lunch as well. It was quite entertaining.

Then, we were off to the old downtown district to do a bit of browsing. The boys went to a family-owned scooter shop to talk scooters while Hosanna and I searched through an “all things vintage” shop next door. When did the 80's become “vintage”? I'm confused. :)

Rounding a corner, we stumbled upon a coffee shop and cafe called “Boca Mocha”, which literally pulled me right in; it could not be helped. I fell in love with the interior design and chatted with the shop owner, a lovely young woman also named Rachel and about my age, who was busy behind the bar whipping up delicious coffee treats. She gave a large slice of chocolate cake to the kids when our wait turned out to be longer than expected. They consumed the cake and the raspberries that went with it before I could even grab the camera. Tom took a little nap on one of their comfy couches. Next time I'm in Springfield, I'll definitely make my way back to this eclectic spot!

Once back to the condo, we relaxed for a bit and while Drew slept hard, Tom took Hosanna and Caleb swimming. After a dinner of various leftovers, we headed out in the relative cool of the evening for miniature golf at “Pirate's Cove”. Tom beat us all, of course, with Hosanna coming in 2^nd, Caleb and I tying for 3^rd, and Drew coming in last, although he did get a hole in one once. I heard Drew say that his pirate name was “Fat Bobby”.

Day Two: Branson, Missouri

2011-08-24T16:53:00.003-05:00

Post-script from our arrival night: The kids saw a raccoon and chased it but were unable to catch it (to their consternation and my relief). Caleb wanted me to make sure I noted this.

We all managed to sleep in a bit this morning (such a hardship). Breakfast was pumpkin pie and granola. We had hoped to spend some time swimming at Table Rock Lake, but due to heavy rain went instead to Branson Landing, starting out at the Bass Pro shop and then weaving our way down the strip, in and out of shops as the rain came and went.

The highlight for the kids was probably the candy shop-they each got a small bag of their own to fill with the goodies of their choice, to their rapturous delight.

At The Children's Place, Drew said loudly after exiting the bathroom: “Those bathrooms were SO clean, Mommy! I was afraid to touch the toilet, it was so clean. They are waaaay cleaner than our bathrooms!”

Once the rain stopped, we enjoyed a late lunch outside on the patio of a gourmet Mexican restaurant- Cantina Laredo. I think that was some of the most delicious Mexican food I have ever eaten! It was located right next to the Landing fountains, which boast a special fire & water musical display every hour.

The question Caleb posed to us all was, “Where in the world would you go, if you could?”

Tom: Swiss Alps (although his first answer was, “Wherever Rachel is”)

Rachel: Venice

Hosanna: China

Caleb: Amazon Rainforest

Drew: Wisconsin

Our cheerful server told us that Drew was the American version of one of her favorite Hispanic actors, a 5 year old named Javier Gutierrez (of the "Pequeños Gigantes" on Univision).

When we at last made it back to our condo in the late afternoon, a siesta was in order. What is it about vacations that make you tired? It must be all the relaxing! After that, off to the pool for more swimming. We met a lovely Christian couple celebrating their 35^th anniversary. They enjoyed playing with our kids and telling us about their five grown sons. The Dad was a mechanical engineer, so he and Caleb chatted it up quite a bit.

A late dinner of hot dogs, raspberries, and carrot sticks ended with the kids on the couch and Tom reading stories. Then, one more episode of Andy (can you tell we are making our way through all 8 seasons?!?). After they were in bed, Tom and I shared a slice of Dino's famous carrot cake which we had purchased at the Landing. Scrumptious! I love to visit places, big and small, that I've read about. A tasty end to a perfect day.

Notes from the start of our vacation...

2011-08-22T20:56:00.001-05:00

Sunday evening we arrived safely in Branson. Our condo is located in a quiet, wooded area not far from Silver Dollar City.

We had a late night, one pot supper of Aldi's orange chicken and rice stir-fry. Then, one episode of “The Andy Griffith Show”, peanut m&m's, and snuggled down to bed. The kids were sooo excited!

Monday morning, fresh blueberry pancakes and sausage. Then, while Tom and I took care of some necessary “paperwork”, the kids had the time of their life playing in our ginormous jacuzzi tub. They emerged quite some time later like wrinkled prunes. Drew had been swimming underwater (yes, it's that big) so he was rewarded with a peanut m&m.

Then, we fried their brains with some educational T.V. while Tom finished with his work. Once that was done, we were off to play tennis. More like, off to catch balls. I forgot what an uncoordinated klutz I am. Caleb earned more peanut m&m's catching my stray balls. I do so love to bribe my children.

Then, off to the nearest Wal-Mart (just a couple miles down the road) for a few grocery and vacation necessities, like ice-cream cones. Bought peaches at a roadside stand just a few feet from the trees they were picked from.

Sandwiches for lunch, followed by ice-cream and more lounging around while watching another episode of Andy. Drew needed a nap, but it was our first day of vacation! Some concessions were in order.

Then, Tom took the kids around the corner to swim in the ultra cool water-park while I stayed to make yet more phone calls regarding our house purchase (making sure all our utilities and such will be set up in time for our move!).

A full afternoon of swimming in the lovely weather was a perfect way to finish out the day. The kids chose one of their favorite meals for dinner-spaghetti with garlic bread, fresh steamed green beans, and apple pie for dessert from Wal-Mart's illustrious bakery. The apple pie was Drew's idea. When I asked the kids for meal suggestions, that was his only one. Apple pie, and lots of it.

Tom & I, Relaxing Before the Fireworks Show

2011-07-29T08:28:00.000-05:00

Notables

2011-06-02T22:52:00.002-05:00

"After sweet and salty, sour and bitter, there is umami—the fifth taste"-now this I must try!

Have you ever had a lara bar? It's a flavorful raw food bar. I've never cared for packaged bars, but these are delicious AND good for you! One of my favorites is the coconut cream pie.

A bohemian rainbow wedding.

"Why yes, after I finish my cicada pizza I'd be thrilled to have a scoop of cicada ice-cream!!"

A natural cleaning product I look forward to using.

Reading on my kindle: Victor Hugo's "Les Miserables".

Chunky Pecan Pie Bars

2011-06-02T21:58:00.001-05:00

Crust:
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 cup (1 stick) butter or margarine, softened
1/2 cup packed brown sugar

Filling:
3 large eggs
3/4 cup granulated sugar
3/4 cup corn syrup
2 tablespoons butter or margarine, melted
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 3/4 cups semi-sweet chocolate chips or chunks
1 1/2 cups coarsely chopped pecans

PREHEAT oven to 350 degrees. Grease a 13x9-inch baking pan.

For Crust
BEAT flour, butter and brown sugar in a small mixer bowl until crumbly. Press into prepared baking pan.

BAKE for 12-15 minutes or until lightly browned.

For Filling
BEAT eggs, sugar, corn syrup, butter and vanilla in a medium bowl with wire whisk. Stir in chunks and nuts. Pour evenly over baked crust.

BAKE for 25-30 minutes or until set. Cool completely in pan on wire rack. Cut into bars.

A new favorite!

Hosanna turns 10

2011-06-02T09:15:00.000-05:00

How is it possible that I have a 10 year old?

Her birthday breakfast of choice: fresh fruit salad (with mangoes and raspberries!), blueberry muffins:

This picture was taken Easter Sunday, right before church. They were thrilled with Daddy's treat of a Panera breakfast.

I'm so blessed to have a daughter like Hosanna!

Drew, while driving

2011-05-17T09:09:00.001-05:00

Drew likes to talk on and on in the car, so he can be quite entertaining and I think, "I need to write this down!" The kid is strapped in a car-seat and has nothing better to do than expostulate about my driving ("You drive as slow as a PICKLE, Mom!") or talk endlessly about what he is going to do when he grows up (the latest: "build mini bulldozers "), what we need at the store, why his brother and sister are bothering him, why we are taking this particular route, when am I going to cut my hair?, and anything else that pops into his over-sized curly head ("My shoes are getting WEAK, I need new ones, Mom.")
When I've reached my destination, sometime I'll grab a little notebook I keep in my purse and record a line or two from his dialoguing.
Here's a random question he posed:
Drew, seriously: "Mom, will you give me a dollar if I don't ask for gum for 25 years?"
Why yes, dear, I think that's a reasonable request! But you have to last the 25 years before you get your dollar.

Photo credit goes to my friend and amazing photographer Angie Parrett!

Remembering

2011-04-29T19:28:00.000-05:00

It's green by his grave. I'm glad for the green lush grass. Many of the cemetery sections are brown-newly turned brown dirt awaiting grass seed. It would be completely quiet, except for the birds, were not some construction workers grading the earth nearby and preparing more grave sites.

RAYMOND A NEUPERT

GM2

US Navy

World War II

Nov 4 1924

Apr 29 2010

Loving Husband

Father

Grandfather

Grt Grandfather

One white marker.

Among so very many.

A nearby marker has this verse inscribed:

“He who trusts the Lord will have wings like eagles.” Isaiah 40:31

It seems strange to sit here, so near the stone, knowing this is his final earthly resting place.

We go to cemeteries to remember, not visit. He's not here.

I place some fresh white roses at the base of his stone. And, even though I hate fake flowers, I can't help but put a small bouquet of the prettiest little white-peach roses I could find. As a little token of love & memory. Because it would be sad, on this my first visit, not to leave a little something behind.

He might not know.

But I know.

And I'm remembering...

Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery

2011-04-29T19:24:00.000-05:00

Chocolate & Waffles- oh my!

2011-04-11T13:04:00.023-05:00

The Belgium waffles sold everywhere in Brussels had us drooling...especially after our scant meals in Paris! We sampled a bit more of Belgium's culinary delights...our eyes popping out at all the colors and options:

Mouthwatering chocolate everywhere! We saw multiple Godiva, Neuhaus, and Leonidas chocolate shops, to name a few.

Manneken-Pis in Brussels

2011-04-11T12:37:00.001-05:00

An interesting and quite famous statue in Brussels is the small but entertaining Mannekin Pis...

...crowds gathered to watch him do what he had been doing since the 15th century! Sometimes he was dressed...

...sometimes not!

Days 7 & 8 in Paris

2011-04-11T12:16:00.001-05:00

Day 7- Our day trip to Brussels, Belgium
How interesting it was to jaunt over to another country for the day! Belgium is famous for it's lace, chocolate, and waffles, all of which we enjoyed discovering in Brussels. The city reminded me of Haarlem-earthy, eclectic, and full of neo-Gothic architecture. We chanced across more English speaking people than in France!
We spent the day wandering through the famous central "Grand Place" square, and nearby neighborhoods using "walking tours" provided by my handy-dandy Rick Steve's guide.

Day 8- Our last day in Paris! "Opera de Paris Garnier" , built in the 16th century and which "Phantom of the Opera" is based on, was an impressive sight! We were able to take an English speaking tour.
We also did a little Parisian shopping, mainly at "La Grande Épicerie de Paris", an astonishing gourmet store filled with foods we had never seen before!

Bell Tower at Notre Dame

2011-04-07T10:12:00.000-05:00

Days 5 & 6 in Paris

2011-03-30T13:52:00.000-05:00

Sunday went at a much slower pace. We were pretty worn out from all the walking! We slept in and enjoyed a leisurely morning.

Our first visit of the day was to Victor Hugo's Paris apartment, where he wrote most of Les Miserables. It was a replica of not just his Parisian home, but also other places he lived.

Afterwards, we strolled to the nearby Jewish quarter and went to a "famous" deli-type restaurant called L'As du Falafel for a mouth-watering, amazing falafel pita with plenty of shredded, crunchy cabbage, cucumbers, sateèd eggplant; tomato, red cabbage, and delicious cripsy falafel in a light cucumber sauce. Being practically our only meal of the day, we thoroughly enjoyed it!

We bought a few treats at some Jewish patisseries as well...hamentashen included!

Day 6

Today we went to the Louvre, saw the oldest church in Paris, and went to the top of the Arc du Triomphe.

The Louvre was beyond any museum experience I've had so far-one could spend days there! With over 30,000 art pieces, there was no way we could see it all. However, we made sure to stroll by many famous collections, including those by Leonardo da Vinci. The Louvre boasts the largest collection of da Vinci-5 pieces total, including the Mona Lisa!

From the Louvre, we walked to St-Germain-de-Pres, the oldest church in Paris (and some say, of all France). How beautiful are the stained glass windows. Seeing the light come streaming in made me think of how God's light penetrates darkness.

The last of our evening was spent atop the Arc de Triomphe, with more views of the city. We strolled down the bustling and famous avenue "Champs Elysees" to get there. I insisted we walk into an H&M store-after all, I've been to them in Chicago, St. Louis, Haarlem, and now Paris!

Random Trip Notes

2011-03-29T01:50:00.001-05:00

We have walked up a lot of steps. To towers! To arches! To see expansive views! We have legs of iron! Okay maybe not. More like jellyfish.

We are literally subsisting on 1 1/2 meals a day. We're travelers on the cheap! Parisian food is yummy...but costs a pretty euro! ;)

We've seen several groups of school children. The girls wear blue scarves, the boys have red. Everyone wears scarves in Paris!

We don't see that many trash cans. And public toilets? Nope. However, there is plenty of urine on the street corners and in odd places in the metro. Where are the Parisian women supposed to pee?

Most people are in pretty fit condition. How can this be, with all the pastry, bread, and cheese being consumed? It must be the metro...all those steps...and steps...and steps...your daily workout is a given!

Baguettes are quite popular. We see people gnawing on them everywhere. It seems common to pick one up for lunch, a snack, or on the way home for dinner.

While sitting on a park bench on the famous Champs-Elysees avenue (people watching is so fun) a bird pooped in Mara's purse. Yes- IN, not on. Somehow it missed her white jacket and the white exterior of her purse and landed neatly in one glop in her side pocket. The look of astonishment and disgust on her face was priceless!

I'm getting pretty good at using foreign keyboards. Our hotel has three different kinds! It has been quite an honor to show different clueless people where the "@" button is. :)

Quotes:

Mom, commenting on the lack of available toilets: "I hold my water well."

Rachel, pointing negligently towards a statue: "That guy looks German." It was Winston Churchhill. Ooops

Mara, while crossing the street during a no-walk light: "If the cars come at us too fast, at least they'll get that old lady first."

Incidentals, Observations, & Funnies

2011-03-27T14:29:00.000-05:00

The Parisians have been very friendly and polite. In fact, on numerous occasions, they ask US for directions in French!! (Mom has counted 5 different occasions so far of random people speaking to her pointedly in French.) We always get a kick out of that!

Being polite and friendly is helpful...when you respectfully approach someone in their language they are pleased at the effort and are usually polite in return! We've observed many Americans who don't extend that courtesy.

I only know a few basic French phrases- "hello", "please", "do you speak English?", and most importantly, "merci!" are among my short list. Mara is much more fluent and it has been great to have her do some interpreting. You might be surprised to discover that many people here DON'T speak English. We've found this to be true in most all of the little bakery and pastry shops we've visited.

Our first full day in Paris, when we went to multiple museums and the Notre Dame, we kept seeing the same guy. First, Mara and I casually noticed him coming UP the down staircase at one place. Then, in another museum, he shyly and politely asked us how to get to a particular display. We laughed privately to ourselves at his apparent tendency to get lost. Before we left, he came up to me and said if I "wanted to make a new friend" I could contact him...and he handed me a slip of paper with his email address and said I could visit him in Brazil! We actually saw him a third time at yet another museum! In the huge city of Paris, what are the odds?

At one particular ticket booth, the lady behind the counter asked to see Mara's i.d. Then, strangely enough, she gave her the child's price! We can only assume that she misread her driver's license. Really- a child's price at age 27?? While I have to pay the adult fare at the old age of 28?!? What gives?!?

Once, upon exiting a metro station, I heard a young man calling, "Excuse me! Please! I love you! I want to kiss you!" Uh, no thank you. I think that was also code for, "Buy my water!" I didn't even glance his way but it was hard to keep a straight face with Mom & Mara sniggering behind me.

Mara and I are getting pretty good at guessing (before we hear them speak) who is French and who is British. There are some interesting comparisions!

We've wondered where all the handicapped people are...no signs, no lifts, nothing that caters to anyone in a wheelchair. Do they ship them off to some to some...island?

Days 3 & 4 in Paris

2011-03-27T06:08:00.000-05:00

Our third day in Paris, we spent at Versailles. Talk about stunning! Over the top grandeur. Louis XIV (called the "Sun King") transformed a royal hunting lodge to a place of splendor..."Château de Versailles". He had a thing for gilding with gold. We also visited Marie-Antoinette's estate on the same grounds. Gardens, parks, endless rows of trees, ponds, lakes, all on a vast estate. Which we walked. An amazing experience!

Day 4: we began with the Musee de l'Orangerie, which houses some of Monet's last works along with many other masterpieces. It was a surreal feeling, to be surrounded by Monet's panoramic "Water Lilies" paintings, or Renoir's "Young Girls at the Piano".

We strolled down some Parisian streets, slowly making our way to the Eiffel Tower. Our reservations were for 9pm, so we had time to walk through a park blooming with spring, peek in on a puppet show, take pictures of grand buildings, people watch, and in general soak in the city. One shopping district we walked through boasted famous Paris names such as Chanel, Dolce&Gabbana, Louis Vuitton, and many others. Passing by a restaurant in this area, we noticed the prices per plate were several hundred euro!

Strolling along the river Seine, we enjoyed views of the Eiffel Tower. We walked in the park and blocks around it, shopping for souvenirs and having our first sit down meal in a cafe. Up until then, we had survived on street food and the occasional patisseries treats!

At 9pm, we took a lift to the second level of the tower, and after being under the monstrous base (which covers about 3 acres!) we loved being able to gaze out at the seemingly endless city of light. Yes, it was one of those, "pinch me, am I dreaming?" moments! Truly, the thrill of a lifetime.

Days 1 & 2 in Paris

2011-03-25T04:28:00.000-05:00

We arrived in Paris Wednesday morning, to beautiful blue skies and spring weather. I had been traveling since Monday evening. It felt so good to finally reach our destination!

It took time to make it out of the airport and to the hotel...at 11:30am, we were graciously allowed to use our room and get showered and refreshed. After that, feeling clean but bleary-eyed (jet-lag!), we walked 15 minutes to the remarkable Père-Lachaise Cemetery . There, we saw Chopin's grave, among other famous notables!

Walking back to our hotel, we happened across a charming little pastry shop which provided our dinner- a quiche for each of us, and the pastry of our choice. Mara and I went for chocolate crossiants.
Then, it was to bed at 5pm! We probably should have tried to stay awake a little longer-we awoke at 10:30pm, tossed and turned a bit, and then went back to sleep until morning.

Day Two-
Now we're on Paris time! (6 hours ahead of central)
Feeling bright and ready-to-go, we headed out to Sainte-Chapelle.
King Louis IX of France built this amazing chapel for the royal family and to house treasured relics including what was believed to be "the crown of thorns". Entering into the chapel, Mom was brought to tears by the beauty and grandeur of the stained glass windows which told the Biblical stories from Genesis to Christ. We sat in awe, absorbing the light and history of such a remarkable place.

Next door, we visited the La Conciergerie. Marie Antoinette was imprisoned here before her death, as were many others during the French revolution.

Notre Dame was our next stop. It was hard not to jump up and down, squealing, when we reached this impressive cathedral! I had many, "pinch me, I'm dreaming" moments. While waiting in line to climb the cathedral steps to the towers, we enjoyed crepes from a nearby stand. Ah yes, another reason I love Paris. The food is amazing! The view from the top of the cathedral was breathtaking. Really! So much Paris, as far as the eye could see. It was a gorgeous day and the breeze was wonderful. The steps up and down were exhausting, and we were concerned Mom's knee would give out on her, but she did just fine.
The actual cathedral sanctuary was free to enter, and we spent time just sitting and gazing at the stained glass windows, arches, and intricacies of the sanctuary. This was Mom's first visit to a cathedral! Huge and inspiring are words that come to mind.

After leaving the cathedral, we strolled around a few Paris streets crammed with cafes, shops, bakeries, and our favorite- a gelato parlor! So instead of dinner, we had gelato, each choosing various flavors and sharing samples. Definitely exquisite. :)

Next, we spent several hours at the Musee d'Orsay , where we saw originals of Monet, Renoir, Cassatt, Degas, Van Gogh, and many others. Of particular note was Whistler's Mother! By the time we returned to our hotel, it was 11pm and our poor footsies were quite worn out from the excursions of the day. However, we thoroughly loved our first day in Paris!

Tea Time in London

2011-03-13T12:21:00.002-05:00

Right around the corner from St. Paul's Cathedral, a little tea-room was waiting, full of steaming fresh teas and piping hot crumpets...

...which we thoroughly enjoyed at our wobbly, teeny tiny little tea table!

Notables

2011-03-10T21:53:00.001-06:00

My friend Candace linked to this image on Facebook and I've thought about it often. When I was caring for my Grandma on a weekly basis, she often referred to other people her own age as being "old", while perceiving herself as more youthful. Sometimes I gazed at her and wondered if I was looking into my own future mirror, but perhaps she was looking at me and seeing herself.

A thoughtful little post about Food & Books.

My current favorite mascara.

Adorable footwear.

A movie that I look forward to watching with Tom. (Check here for an interesting review.)

I will soon be seeing THIS!

Spring at Hampton Court

2011-03-05T20:28:00.000-06:00

I was just thinking about my trip last March to England...and visiting Hampton Court for the day....

....and all the beautiful flowers....

....and manicured lawns....

All Dressed Up

2011-03-01T10:35:00.000-06:00

~Taken in October 2010, before heading out to a family wedding~

Two Kinds of Men

2011-02-22T14:14:00.001-06:00

My children listened attentively while we read this passage from today's reading in "Little Britches":

"Son," he said, "I had hoped you wouldn't run into anything like this till you were older, but maybe it's just as well. There are only two kinds of men in this world: Honest men and dishonest men. There are black men and white men and yellow men and red men, but nothing counts except whether they're honest men or dishonest men.
"Some men work almost entirely with their brains; some almost entirely with their hands; though most of us have to use both. But we all fall into one of the two classes-honest and dishonest.
"Any man who says the world owes him a living is dishonest. The same God that made you and me made this earth. And He planned it so that it would yield every single thing that the people on it need. But He was careful to plan it so that it would only yield up its wealth in exchange for the labor of man. Any man who tries to share in that wealth without contributing the work of his brain or his hands is dishonest.
"Son, this is a long sermon for a boy of your age, but I want so much for you to be an honest man that I had to explain it to you."

What have I been doing lately?

2010-10-25T13:26:00.001-05:00

I've been on dial-up quite often throughout the summer, and now permanently until we get DSL to our area (which will probably not happen until pigs fly), and that has considerably slowed down my blogging and internet time. (Remarkably, facebook is about the only thing that works ok on our dial-up! Much to my husband's consternation.)

I know everyone has had a busy summer, but I can honestly say mine was crazy! It's a joke among local friends that they only get to spend time with me in the winter. Besides a little camping, and a few day/weekend excursions within a couple hours, the only traveling we did was a trip to PA for a wedding and visiting with Tom's great-grandparents and extended family. Here at home, however, we've had company come and go, a family wedding in early October, a house to remodel (which will hopefully soon be on the market!), and just plain ol' Stuff to Do.

I did a *little* (a very little) school with the kids in-between all the craziness, but as of September 1st we have officially started another school year. Drew is enrolled in a church "day school" which he attends on Tuesday and Thursday mornings and which he absolutely LOVES and which I absolutely LOVE because it gives me a little break! I like that he is doing a mix of bible school and preschool activities, and I don't have to clean up the arts and crafts mess. (!) Meanwhile, I am able to concentrate on Hosanna and Caleb's school blissfully uninterrupted. Drew is definitely my most challenging toddler and I knew I needed help this start-of-school season in order to stay somewhat sane.

We seem to be slowly easing into a new routine, and while the kids sometimes bewail the daily math and chores, they are doing well! We're all learning together-not necessarily "perfectly", usually quite the opposite, but that's life, right?

I'm also trying to get back into my regular cooking and baking rhythm, which has been spotty over the summer. I've been running here and there, and/or too tired when at home, so there has been more take-out and frozen chimichangas than usual! I really want to change that. I'm sure my extra tiredness has also been due to grief-it's physically as well as emotionally exhausting.

All in all, there have been many changes in my life, routine, and daily focus these past several months. We're all making adjustments.

Life does indeed go on.

Labyrinth at New Harmony, Part 2

2010-08-23T16:46:00.001-05:00

Havalah trying to keep up with us!

The maze stumped us all a time or two!

Labyrinth at New Harmony, Part 1

2010-08-23T14:18:00.001-05:00

We all do like each other, most of the time...

2010-08-23T14:06:00.001-05:00

Naomi and Mom

Mara and Me

I think the smiles we are giving each other are the "I know what you're up to" type.

The White House

2010-08-23T13:59:00.000-05:00

Lunch in New Harmony was a festive occasion! After walking and exploring all morning, we were rightfully famished. The White House was a darling little restaurant. We especially raved over their spinach pear salad, and portabella sandwich. (I've searched my pictures for shots of the plates, but Esther must have taken those with the other camera...)

There was much picture taking by all...

And many smiles!

Dressed in Brown

2010-08-23T13:46:00.000-05:00

Keturah and I ended up in brown dresses, during one of our New Harmony days. Mine was a simple sheath, and hers more tailored and the agreed favorite of the group. (I felt quite smug about the fact that I discovered it for her.) She's so petite and looks adorable in cute little dresses!

Exploring New Harmony, Part 4

2010-08-23T13:07:00.001-05:00

Exploring New Harmony, Part 3

2010-08-23T13:02:00.000-05:00

The Roofless Church

Our lovely Naomi

Exploring New Harmony, Part 2

2010-08-23T12:49:00.001-05:00

We could spend hours in a coffee shop with shelves of books...

"Oooo, look what I found!"

"I love that book. I've read it again and again..."

"This is the most darling vintage children's book EVER!"

Exploring New Harmony, Part 1

2010-08-23T12:37:00.000-05:00

A town rich with fascinating history...

Shopping in New Harmony

2010-08-23T12:28:00.000-05:00

I've been going through the remaining pictures of our New Harmony trip, and remembering what a great time we had together.
All us girls like to explore thrift, antique, and one-of-a-kind shops...

You never know what you'll come across! Here, Mara and Keturah have fun perusing a book...

...meanwhile, Havalah found her own little corner to relax in.

Thai Food in St. Louis

2010-08-23T11:49:00.000-05:00

I just love the diversity and cultural experiences St. Louis has to offer. It's one of my favorite cities-fairly easy to navigate (in comparison to the complexities of Boston's subway system, for example, or the hugeness of New York and Chicago) and it is just full of really cool stuff.

And really cool food!

During a weekend spent in St. Louis with girlfriends this past summer, we explored several new cuisines and this Thai restaurant, located on the outskirts of St. Louis, was a favorite.

Leslie & Mara

Good food, good friends, good times!

Summer Color :: Vegetarian Dinner

2010-07-22T11:10:00.000-05:00

I wish I had taken pictures of our entire vegetarian meal. It was so colorful! Guacamole with tortilla chips, grilled garden vegetables, and a fruit salad composed of strawberries, bananas, mangoes, and peaches.

Blackberry Muffins

2010-07-03T15:36:00.003-05:00

I love blackberries. LOVE them. And this year the wild berries are fabulous! The kids have had a grand time hunting for good ones and filling buckets full. The blackberries are huge, plump, sweet, and not very "seedy". Seriously, they are like the kind you would pay big bucks for in a Whole Foods store! We've eaten them raw by the handfuls, and I've made one pie so far (blackberry pie is one of my favorite fruit pies, although I'm partial to anything in a crust), and a cobbler. The other day I thought I would do something new:

Blackberry Muffins!

I found several yummy looking recipes, and ending up trying this one from the "Dozen Flours" blog.
It was good. I can't wait to try a few more recipes and compare. They were fluffy and cake-like, but not very sweet. Which is fine. I don't want my muffins to be too sugary, but these muffins were just begging to be dipped in butter and sugar:

I always listen to my muffins, and these were clearly saying, "We need more butter and sugar!"
And I was happy to oblige.

The Awful P.I.

2010-07-02T14:02:00.000-05:00

Earlier in June I wrote this post in an itching craze, and then promptly forgot about it until just now when I found it in "Drafts". I find a lot of stuff in "Drafts" that will probably never get posted....

P.I. That's what I call poison ivy. It has plagued me since childhood. For the most part, I've managed to avoid it the past couple summers, but a couple weeks ago somehow, somewhere, it came in contact with my arms. I really think I got it from the kids' clothes.

Once that oil gets on your skin-it's near impossible to remove. The product "Tec-Nu" is great as a preventative, and for use before the rash appears if you know you've been desecrated, and even when the rash is just starting to show. After that, you're in for it. Hopefully, you're part of a lucky group of people who only get a mildly annoying and itchy red rash. The other group of people, of which I am President, end up with oozy, nightmare-inducing blisters that make you want to amputate and spend the rest of your life in a sterile environment landscaped with rocks and not a green bush in sight.

Once you get a bad case of poison ivy, you begin to see it everywhere and a simple walk in the park could end up with you hugging the nearest asphalt and yelling, "Get me away from those trees! They're covered in poison ivy vines!!"

Did you know that you could get the poison from a stick? Yes, a stick. The plant doesn't even need to have green leaves in order for it to wreak havoc.

I used to get it really bad as a teenager. I seemed doomed to get it on my face every summer. A friend was commenting on my recent poison ivy rash and said, "Oh I remember when you got it on your face. You looked like a cauliflower."

That was me. Cauliflower girl. I'm surprised my skin didn't scar from the awfulness. With my large glasses, my over-bite, and my puffy poison ivy face, I was quite the beauty. Those were such fun, happy days.

I tried everything I could think of to rid myself of the poison ivy, every remedy I read about or was told to try. Some helped. Most did not. I pretty much rely on Tec-Nu and good ol' distilled white vinegar right now, which helps dry it up faster. Basically, I have to let it run it's course, which is about 2 weeks.

If I ever disappear from polite society for that length of time, you'll know I got it on my face and turned into Cauliflower Girl again.

Summer Feasts

2010-06-30T08:51:00.002-05:00

Here are some of our favorite meals from the past couple weeks:

Mom's Meatloaf
Roasted Garlic and New Potatoes
Garden Green Beans

Roasted Turkey
Restaurant-Style Smashed Potatoes
Garden Sugar Snap Peas, lightly sauteed
Homemade Rolls

Beef Kielbasa with colored bell peppers and onions
Basil and Garlic Pesto Penne
Fresh fruit

Chuck Roast
Creamy Mashed Potatoes
Steamed Carrots and Broccoli

Meaty Spaghetti Sauce served over noodles
Olive Cheese Bread
Steamed Mixed Vegetables

Grilled Chicken Breast
Scalloped Potatoes
Garden Broccoli

"Mexican Breakfast"
Corn Muffins
Spanish Rice
Fluffy Scrambled Eggs
Crumbled Breakfast Sausage
Sour Cream
Shredded Cheese
Salsa
Each person layers the components they desire in a colorful, tasty arrangement!

Rain-Scented Laundry

2010-06-18T13:51:00.000-05:00

There's a scent for everything out there. Candles. Detergent. Room fresheners. Hairspray.

"Satin Sheets."

"Sugar Cookies."

"Tropical Breeze."

"Mulberry and Pine."

"Your Grandma's Perfume."

Well maybe not that last one, but you get the idea. Ever smell a "fresh rain" scent? Here's how to give your laundry that unmistakable whiff of summer glory:

Leave your clothes or sheets on an outdoor clothesline for at least two days, during which a quick thunderstorm passes by. (You can plan to do this when the weather forecast calls for showers or, if you have my luck, it'll rain within 2 hours of hanging clothes on the line anyway. I always trigger the weather when I load up the clothesline. It's like magic.)

Let dry completely in the sun, in order to lock in that unmistakable rain scent and fade the clothes just a bit. Or a lot. If completely drenched, this may take an extra day or two.

Remove, inhale deeply, fold and put away! Easy! "Fresh-Rain Scent" the low budget way!

Peonies, Part 3

2010-06-13T22:09:00.001-05:00

Peonies, Part 2

2010-06-13T18:14:00.001-05:00

Camping Preparations

2010-06-03T21:02:00.001-05:00

.MENU

Friday
Dinner- Hamburger patties with onions, potatoes, carrots

Saturday
Breakfast- fried eggs and pre-cooked sausage links, fruit
Lunch- sandwiches, chips, applesauce, veggies
Dinner- beef hot dogs, baked beans, chips, fruit

Sunday
Breakfast- cereal, yogurt, donuts, fruit
Lunch- leftover sandwich stuff and/or PBJ's

Snacks: chewy bars, fruit leather, dried fruit, nuts, cheese crackers, and various other Aldi delights

And, of course, S'mores

For several months, we've been planning on going camping this weekend with some friends.

Our last camping excursion with them in the fall was rained out. We gave up and went home a night early when our tent was happily leaking water!

This time, armed with a new tent, hopefully our leakage problems will be over. Today was supposed to be shopping and packing day for me. Even though I know it will be great to get out in Creation with my family, I've been listless about the whole camping-preparation part. And I'm less excited about all the laundry afterward. I know, bah-humbug. And then this afternoon, instead of doing camping stuff, I slept two hours. I warned Tom (who has been away the last couple days working) not to expect homemade goodies and my usual camping gourmet. Oh no, we're talking cereal and yogurt here. And lunch meat sandwiches, which I really don't like, so to console myself I bought the good deli meat. This trip will not be about the food or the organization, that's for sure, but the Family Togetherness. That's what it's always supposed to be about, anyways....

Peonies, Part 1

2010-06-02T15:39:00.001-05:00

A friendly New Harmony shop owner suggested we stroll to the nearby peony farm where acres of peonies were in bloom. It was beautiful! The fragrance of all those peonies was a delight.

Wild Strawberries

2010-06-02T11:53:00.000-05:00

While exploring New Harmony, which is lush with gardens, parks, and other outdoor delights, we came across a carpet of wild strawberries. They didn't have much flavor, but sure were adorable to look at.

Amy's Birthday

2010-06-01T16:57:00.003-05:00

Happy Birthday to my friend, Amy, who is spending another birthday in a beautiful place. I miss you dear.

With the Girls in New Harmony, Indiana

2010-06-01T10:46:00.003-05:00

A couple months ago, Mara had arranged to spend Mom's birthday weekend at the historical town of New Harmony, Indiana. She reserved a cabin at the nearby Harmonie state park. Though all our plans had changed considerably since Grandpa's death, we decided to go ahead with the birthday weekend for Mom, with Hosanna and I joining all of my sisters in Indiana. We were so glad we did. Mom certainly needed a break after the first two weeks of getting Grandma settled! It isn't often that ALL of us sisters get to spend time together, and we had a great time.

Playing in the Bamboo

2010-06-01T09:57:00.000-05:00

Hosanna crafted a bamboo vase with flowers

While in Augusta, we met up with some friends who were also in the area staying at a nearby state park. This is Candace with Truxton. While enjoying an outdoor dinner together one evening, the children had a grand time playing in a large bamboo grove:

Biking on the Katy Trail

2010-05-28T10:57:00.001-05:00

Yes, that's me with a rental bike. Me, biking. Weird, isn't it? I wobbled a few times, but it was like, you know, riding a bike and eventually I got the hang of it again. We had brought along Tom and the kids' bikes, so we only had to rent one for me and a pull-along for Drew, which he loved. The Katy Trail was beautiful, and we'll definitely do it again!

Dinner at the Winery

2010-05-28T09:11:00.001-05:00

While in Augusta, we went to a nearby winery for dinner. Hwy 94 (on which Augusta is located) is dotted with beautiful vineyards and wineries. We had italian pizza and toasted ravioli at the Balducci vineyards restaurant. Drew was absolutely delighted with everything:

Our Retreat

2010-05-28T08:58:00.001-05:00

While in Augusta, we stayed at a charming guest house located above an equally charming antique shop.
The Stone Ledge Guest Suite was a lovely, quiet spot to make our headquarters for the weekend.
When not there, we were out exploring the little town of Augusta, the nearby state park, or biking on the Katy Trail.

Augusta, Missouri

2010-05-28T08:45:00.001-05:00

The weekend after Grandpa's funeral- Mother's Day Weekend- we went to this beautiful place. We were looking for a quiet, relaxing spot and we found it. This was a different part of Missouri than I had seen. Unlike the rocky Ozarks, this land was composed of rolling hills and vineyards and was a little like I imagined Rhine Country to be...

Hosanna's 9th Birthday

2010-05-28T08:24:00.001-05:00

We celebrated Hosanna's birthday in pieces and parts, since it occurred just a few days after Grandpa died and we had to rearrange our schedule. On the actual day of her birthday, I was feeling too "blah" to do much of anything, but wanted her to have a special time. So, I said she could pick out a restaurant to eat breakfast at. Originally, she thought McDonald's would be an excellent choice, but after much deliberation she settled on Denny's.

What fun

Amy & Zarah

2010-05-28T07:54:00.001-05:00

My sister-in-law and neighbor, Amy, stopped by the other day to show me Zarah's new outfit. I love her bright flower clips and creative clothes, which Amy designs and makes herself. The shirt and dress Amy and Zarah are wearing in this picture both come from the same long sleeved shirt, which Amy cut up and reused! I love being in the presence of such talent and beauty.

My adorable little niece is also lovingly called, "Zoe"-the letters of which stand for her initials: Zarah Odette E.

Grandpa

2010-05-06T19:10:00.001-05:00

Remembrances

2010-05-06T18:53:00.000-05:00

In memory of my Grandpa Ray, Dad and Tom shared the following:

From Dad, step-son:
Ray would always want to tell a joke, even if you didn't want to hear it, And some of his jokes were as old or older than he was.

The older Ray got the worse his neuropathy became, making it difficult for him to walk. One day I was at their house working in the backyard on their sunroom addition and Ray had walked from the garage to the backyard. After a bit I realized he was laying on the ground because he had tripped over a concrete downspout drain. I said, "What are you doing down there?" His reply was something like, "I'm looking for worms."

Even though Ray had difficulty walking (without his cane, his gait was a double-s pattern) due to his neuropathy, he not only bowled every Tuesday, but had a decent average of 155.

Ray was generous with his family.

He wasn't afraid to embarrass you in public, but it usually was from a good-natured remark.

From Tom, grandson-in-law:
He always had a joke, full of fun. He loved to see people laugh.
He loved to hunt and fish. At 85 he went deer hunting last year.
He loved football and baseball. It was a lot of fun watching the super bowl this year with him. His team won.
He loved to bowl. He left me in the dust every time I bowled with him.
I have very fond memories of playing Yahtzee and checkers together.
He would often ask if I was enjoying life. He would encourage me to be making memories with my family.
He loved kids. My kids will miss their great-grandpa very much.
Grandpa will always be remembered as a fun person to be with. He would give you a big hug and say,”God loves you and so do I”.

Raymond A. Neupert

2010-05-06T18:47:00.000-05:00

One week ago today, on Thursday, April 29th, a man I loved dearly passed away.

Raymond A. Neupert was born November 4, 1924 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late August and Frieda (Sieb) Neupert, and entered into rest April 29, 2010 in St. James, Missouri at the age of 85.

Raymond was a member of the United Methodist Church and the Masonic Lodge. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, bowling, and was a fan of the St. Louis Cardinals.

Survivors include his wife Alice Neupert of St. James; son David Nail & wife Tammy of Pittsboro, IN; ten grandchildren and three great grandchildren; nieces Carol, Holly, Maxine and Darlene.

He was preceded in death by his brother and four sisters, in addition to his parents.

Visitation for family and friends will be held from 2 to 3 PM Sunday, May 2, 2010 at James & Gahr Mortuary in St. James, Missouri. A memorial service will also be held Sunday, May 2 beginning at 3 PM at James & Gahr Mortuary in St. James with Rev. Amy Turner officiating. Interment will be at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery in St. Louis, Missouri.

Spring Dinner

2010-04-27T10:40:00.001-05:00

Tom has been building us a deck on the back of the house, and although it isn't quite finished, we've enjoyed sitting out there on balmy evenings (unlike the recent cold ones-brr!) to have dinner or dessert or just relax.

For our first "Spring Dinner on the Porch", I made rib steaks with whiskey cream sauce, roasted carrots, and mashed potatoes.

About that whiskey cream sauce: it was fabulous. I tried a teeny tiny bit of the whiskey before making the sauce, as I always like to sample my culinary alcohol, and I was in for a big surprise. I thought my lips were on fire, and my skin nearly turned inside out, not to mention the fireworks going off in my head. I had a new respect for the cowboys in old movies who downed a shot glass of the stuff. What did they have, cast-iron stomachs? After the taste test, I was initially skeptical, but it translated into a delicious creamy sauce! (Recipe from Pioneer Woman's Cookbook!)

Drew enjoying his dinner

In the two weeks since this photo was taken, the trees have really leafed out!

My Favorite Brother-in-Law?

2010-04-23T07:00:00.001-05:00

This past January, I received an unexpected gift. A little (baby) bag including a card:

"Rachel, I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciated you choosing me to be your favorite brother-in-law. Here are a few tokens to show my appreciation.... Andrew"

The bag contained an assortment of very useful items such as batteries, nuts, chocolate...a good beginning, I'd say. Now if I'm counting correctly, I have, what, six brothers-in-law? Any one else want to be favorite? I didn't know I had a favorite but hey, bring on the competition! I wonder if this has anything to do with homemade cookies. Surely not....I'm sure my brothers-in-law would love me even if I NEVER made them any cookies!

Right?

Right Andy?

Jessie

2010-04-22T08:18:00.000-05:00

Saffron

This adorable cherub is the daughter of one of my dearest friends, Jessie. We've known each other for quite a long time; since I was about, oh, thirteen! Jessie was my bridesmaid 10 years ago; then, a couple years later I was her bridesmaid. We don't live close anymore, and being a couple states away from each other makes it difficult to visit. However, she was taking a trip through our area recently and stopped to spend the day with us! I loved getting to know her three daughters.

Moravia

Our six children! Moravia, Hosanna holding Denali, Caleb, Saffron, and Drew. How funny that we each ended up with a curly headed child!

My dear Jessie

Come visit again, friend!

My life lately...

2010-04-21T20:00:00.002-05:00

You may have noticed that I haven't really blogged much about my Europe trip.

There are a couple reasons for that. Let me explain. Never mind-let me condense:

Still don't have all the pictures (long story, but I will get them soon) and

I've been busy. So, so busy!

Case in point: during one week recently I had company over on Monday, then spent Tuesday through Friday in the hospital with my Grandma. She's fine now, back at home, but boy was that a long week!

So, I do look forward to blogging more about my travels but they will probably be inconsistent, out of order, and randomly spring up here and there between other posts.

Meanwhile, my life has been revolving around the kid's school, trying to spring clean (that always takes about 6 months and then it's time to do the fall cleaning), checking in on my Grandparents, numerous family festivities including baby showers and birthdays, and so on.

I am really loving this beautiful spring weather. Some days it feels like summer is here!

Baby Shower!

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My sister-in-law Grace, at the baby shower family and friends hosted in honor of her little boy due the beginning of June. The diaper cake was made by my sister-in-law Amy, both gift and table centerpiece! (For some reason, the colors seem "off" in these pictures. I guess that is to be expected if I'm the one taking them!)

Several ladies contributed delicious appetizers.

Flowers and candles added to the denim and teddy bear theme chosen by the expectant mother.

Grace and her mom, Helen, my mother-in-law.

Spring Party

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We recently had a spring lunch at our cousin Amy's house (she is pictured on the left wearing blue and holding her baby boy).
A Grandma and various aunts, cousins, sisters, and sisters-in-law were present! We all brought or borrowed hats for the occasion. One of the lovely desserts served by our hostess was this charming lamb cake:

Prisoners at the Tower

2010-04-05T11:57:00.000-05:00

Mara

Lady Jane Grey's husband carved her name in stone during his imprisonment.

One of many "towers".

Tower of London

2010-04-01T11:11:00.000-05:00

This was a truly amazing experience. We spent several hours here, marveling at ancient walls, compartments where kings and queens lived, tower rooms where prisoners were held in either luxury or degradation, depending on their status, the Jewel House where the crown jewels are still protected after many centuries, and exploring many other fascinating sights. The Tower of London is just dripping with history! It was hard to take it all in.

Traitor's Gate. Many famous prisoners passed through this gate, including Anne Boleyn.

Part of the massive wall surrounding the tower area.

One of the first and oldest structures built within the tower-the White Tower (completed in 1100).

We took loads of pictures, and I can't even begin to do them justice on this blog! However, I'm excited to give you a glimpse into some of our experiences. The Tower of London was definitely a highlight of our trip. Someday, I'd love to go back!

London Itinerary

2010-04-01T09:40:00.000-05:00

Mara planned and prepared our London itinerary (indeed, most of the trip was handled by her expertise!) and with a few variations, here is what our four days in London looked like:

Saturday March 13

8:00 am Arrive Heathrow
9:00? Take Heathrow connect to Ealing Broadway, then take Central line to North Acton Station.
9:30 – 10:00 Arrive at Express Holiday Inn Park Royal. Check in if possible, take showers, and get cleaned up. Take a short nap?
12:00 pm Get lunch then head out for Albert and Victoria Museum.
1:00 – 1:30 pm Arrive Albert and Victoria Museum, can stay until closing at 5:00 pm.
5:00 pm Eat supper/walk through Hyde Park/Head back to hotel.

Sunday March 14

9:00 – 9:15 am Leave hotel for Tower of London
10:00 Tower of London
2:00 pm Lunch break
2:30 – 2:45 Walk towards St. Paul’s Cathedral
4:45 pm Free organ recital at St. Paul’s

Monday March 13

9:30 Arrive @ Westminster Abby –Take Central line, transfer to Green/Yellow line @ Notting Hill Gate.
11:30 –12:00 Eat lunch? Head towards the National Maritime Museum and the Royal Observatory taking Waterloo South Eastern train to Greenwich (Towards Dartford Station)
5:00 pm Museum closes, head towards Dennis Severs’ House, eating supper in the area.
7:45 Dennis Severs’ house

Tuesday March 14

9:30,Take South West Train from Waterloo to Hampton Court
10:00 Hampton Court Palace opens. Spend the day here!

There and Back Again

2010-03-24T07:23:00.000-05:00

On March 12, my sister Mara and I flew from Chicago to London, then eventually from London to Amsterdam, and from Amsterdam, back to the states. Our trip lasted 9 days. I'm still trying to digest all our experiences! I'm so grateful for the opportunity to make such a trip. My world feels both so much smaller, and so much bigger. I look forward to sharing some of it with you on this blog! I request your patience as I get settled back in at home, continue doing school, attack the mountain of laundry, and begin unwrapping all the wooden blocks covered with packaging tape. Now I wonder who did that...

Hosanna Herself

2010-03-15T07:00:00.002-05:00

Hosanna's Art 2

2010-03-14T07:00:00.002-05:00

That would be...my homemade biscuit.

That would be...Hosanna's finger.

I laughed aloud when I found these pictures on my camera. I knew she had taken the first one (yesterday's photo) but these were a surprise! There are all kinds of quirky. :)

Hosanna's Art 1

2010-03-13T07:00:00.004-06:00

Hosanna arranged and took this photo. She's definitely got the funky/bizarre art thing going on.

Hosanna's Snow Pictures

2010-03-12T07:00:00.003-06:00

We had a lot of this in January and February. The kids loved it. I, for one, dreamed of balmy weather, but was happy they had such fun playing in it. I'm glad for the seasons...but especially when winter turns into spring! Goodbye, snow, hopefully until next winter!

Valentine's Treats

2010-03-11T07:00:00.002-06:00

Marshmallow "suckers" provided by Auntie Rowena!
The children really enjoyed celebrating Valentine's Day this year, making piles of homemade cards for each other, Tom and I, and various aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. We made special treats as well-homemade toffee being a favorite.

Our 3 Year Old

2010-03-10T15:09:00.000-06:00

It's still hard to believe this little guy turned three in January. What personality!
We're super glad he's in our life.

January 2010

2010-02-02T06:33:00.000-06:00

I'm sitting here drinking hot tea with honey, waaay too early in the morning! A bit of a cold is keeping me awake when I'd much rather be under the comforters!

January flew by in a rush. The kids-and Tom!-enjoyed the snow and ice we got. Tom loved playing ice-hockey.

We've been consistent with school, although there are some areas I'd like to work on more. It's been neat to see Hosanna take off with her reading! She has been reading aloud to me, "Meet Kirsten" and it reminds me of the first time I read the book!

Tuesdays with Grandma continue. Our good friends the Nisbetts have been so kind to watch the children for me. It has been interesting to be on the receiving end of Grandma's paranoid phone calls, distress, and various emotional mood swings as a result of her dementia. It is remarkable to me that while she frequently forgets who her own husband is, she always seems to know who I am.

Drew turned 3 this month! That has been an eye-opener. He's no longer a "baby"! He told me yesterday that "I am getting smarter everyday, Mom". I'm pleased that he is playing more with our blocks, wooden train tracks, and legos-finally, finally, that child is entertaining himself! Whenever I start to cook or bake, though, he's usually at the island in a flash, sitting on a stool and watching (and climbing on the counter, sampling, stirring, spilling, telling me how to do it, and asking "does that have dairy in it??").

Besides Drew's birthday, there were a few other notable milestones this month. My brother Ian and Tom's sister Susie both turned 18. Our niece Katy and adopted niece Sophie turned 4 and 3. My brother Joshua (7) became a believer in Christ! My parents celebrated their 29th anniversary.

I've been reorganizing our personal and business paperwork system, and trying to stay on top of keeping a small house clutter-free! I'd love to have, oh, about a week to systematically work through the house, cleaning and organizing, but as that isn't possible I'm doing it in bits and pieces.

It's been a good month, because God is good!

Christmas Eve Service 2009

2010-01-26T22:04:00.001-06:00

The following pictures are from, as the title indicates, our family's Christmas Eve candlelight service outing~
held in a large, beautiful church near my parent's home.

Some remained at home with the stomach flu, but those who could hold their food down enjoyed attending together what I hope might remain a family tradition!

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Naomi & Caleb

Hosanna & Ian

Dad & Esther

Grandpa & Grandma N., Keturah, Seth

2010-01-26T21:53:00.000-06:00

For Those Who Grieve

2010-01-15T17:00:00.002-06:00

I have had some grief in my life, and mourned the loss of those I loved, and while I do not compare that to the incomparable loss of losing a child, I feel I have had a small introduction into the world of grief.

It is a process, often which lasts a lifetime.

A dear friend of mine lost her Grandpa this week. Not only has my heart been sore for her sake, as she processes the fresh loss of a man she knew and loved all her life, but it has brought again the reminder of my own grief in losing my Grandpa last year.

On the way to the funeral today, Caleb said to me unexpectedly, "Remember at Grandpa Tice's funeral, when they played the tape of him singing Amazing Grace? Well now when I hear that song it makes me think of him and sometimes it's a little sad."

Yes honey, I understand that. Grief is a strange thing. It catches you unexpectedly.

I've been reflecting on how to reach out to those who are experiencing grief. I wanted to share a series of articles on the subject titled, "How to Help Your Grieving Friend", by a young family who experienced the loss of their precious baby girl.

I was thinking this morning of my miscarriage and the initial shock and confusion I felt. I was depressed and terribly, terribly sad. A friend named Bonnie reached out to me in the kindest way possible. Having gone through similar circumstances, she knew how I was feeling.

I was in bed, weak and recovering, and thinking the world was falling apart. She came into my little home, bringing a beautiful long stemmed rose in memory of my child, and a book on grief. She hugged me, and pulled up a chair to my bed and sat with me for a long time...quiet, supportive. She listened. When I asked her, "Why does everything have to die?" like a small petulant child, she reassured me that God was still in control even when I didn't understand His ways. She acknowledged my grief and didn't offer me platitudes. She was just there.

We will all deal with some measure of grief in our lives. Those we love will face it as well. Thankfully, we have a Comforter who is always faithful. May we be compassionate vessels of His love.

Friday's Menu

2010-01-08T19:38:00.001-06:00

Breakfast:
Leftover pancakes from a recent pancake making marathon (more on that later) and oven apple oatmeal (delicious-even to me, a long-time hot oatmeal hater!)

Lunch:
Gnocchi with Italian pasta sauce and a few bits of leftover meat, sprinkled with parmesan cheese

Dinner:
Unstuffed Cabbage

December Chicago Trip

2010-01-04T22:17:00.002-06:00

Hosanna and I were thrilled to join my Mom and sisters on their Chicago trip this year. We went the weekend before Christmas and stayed for about three days-just long enough to get a little taste of an amazing city and thoroughly worn out from walking!

(The little hunchback by the church door? That would be me.)

We loved the bustle of the city, the amazing stores, and the great cuisine. The following posts give you a glimpse into some of our fun!

Lincoln Park Conservatory

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We spent an afternoon wandering through a beautiful conservatory and the Lincoln Park Zoo.

Me and my little sis!

It was great to have Hosanna along with us!

Oh wait! I just spotted some very unusual tropical flowers on this bench!

Breakfast at the West Egg

2010-01-04T21:56:00.000-06:00

Here we are, getting ready to enjoy a scrumptious breakfast at a bustling cafe right off of Chicago's Magnificent Mile, called the "West Egg". They kindly gave us our very own room! You know me-I'm not very good at A) Remembering to take pictures and B) Actually taking them. When I did think of it, we were usually sitting down for a meal. So, it may appear from my Chicago pictures that all we did was eat! (Almost true, but not quite).

My lovely sister Naomi, sporting Mom's beads which several different individuals wore on the trip.

My spunky sister Keturah, wearing her adorable scarf and sweet smile.

Hershey's Chocolate Store of Chicago

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This was a really neat store!

Two of the sweetest things I found at Hershey's!

Giordano's Famous Pizza

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The wait was worth it. What a pizza!

Left to right: Naomi, Hosanna, Mom (Tammy), Keturah, Mara, Esther
Some very refined ladies enjoying an evening on the town.

One piece will fill you up!

Okay maybe not so refined. Me and my horse teeth were hungry!

Breakfast at Panera

2010-01-04T15:54:00.000-06:00

Panera is a favorite spot for all of us. Somehow, it seemed even more special in Chicago!
(I told you we did a lot of eating.)

Chinatown

2010-01-04T15:28:00.000-06:00

We spent the better part of our last day in Chicago exploring one section of Chinatown. I imagined it felt a little like actually being in China, if that is possible! Some of the grocery stores and specialty shops (our eyes bugged out at the $75 dried deer tails and assortments of fish stomach and parts) had only non-English speaking hosts. It was really fascinating.

The food was fabulous. Here we are at a restaurant called, funnily enough, "The Mayflower". It was the real deal. And yes, Mara could gracefully use chopsticks while I used a fork and STILL managed to drop food in my lap.

We also ordered random items (most of which we had never heard of before) at a Chinese bakery to share and sample on our trip home. Bean buns, lotus flower puffs, and sesame "cookies", to name a few. Most of them were delicious, while a few initiated the gag reflex. :)

Ghirardelli's Chocolate Shop

2010-01-04T14:37:00.001-06:00

This was definitely a highlight of our Chicago trip. Some of us went here oh, about three times.

Of course we're happy! We're only drinking the best hot chocolate EVER!

Mom and Mara are dreamily enjoying their chocolate confections as well.

After walking in the bitter cold, it was like entering a magical chocolate wonderland!

Roses from my Love

2009-12-29T07:00:00.009-06:00

In addition to my (very unexpected) red dress, Tom also gave me a little sterling silver necklace and earring set set to commemorate our 10th anniversary, and if I wasn't stunned enough by this out-of-character shopping spree from my lovable (but fashionably clueless) husband, he brought me a bouqet of ten roses! By then I was officially swept off my feet.

Sonnet 116

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

Admit impediments. Love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark

That looks on tempests and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle's compass come:

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved,

I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

William Shakespeare

(1564 - 1616)

Candles and Cleaning

2009-12-28T10:51:00.000-06:00

We arrived home from our various travels Saturday night, and after being gone again most of Sunday, I find myself finally unpacking, cleaning, and organizing today. I cleared the gingerbread house from the island, Tom's bag full of stocking stuffers, ten day's worth of mail, and lighted one of my new candles. I love to burn candles, and was almost completely out, so during a visit to Chicago's C.O. Bigelow store, I took advantage of a sale and indulged in two large scented candles. This one, Grapefruit, is flooding the kitchen with it's tangy sweet scent while I muster up the diligence to get the house sparkling!

Drew being Cute

2009-12-17T07:00:00.001-06:00

Taken a couple days before his haircut, I thought these were pretty cute (and my old map makes a surprisingly good background!):